Monday, March 16, 2009

This thing we call the “Plan”

You see, we all come into our own at some point in our lives.
This is where we start to formulate the “plan” it’s our life plan.
Maybe it comes into being because of our past experiences, maybe a confluence of factors such as our ambitions, ideals, desires, beliefs, values, upbringing, background, birth order. It’s a result of our set of values, where we are in life and where we are headed or want to be.

This plan involves us and significant others and for some, it involves a prioritization of work over family or relationships.

I’ve always been pretty much fixed about my “plan”.
While I haven’t really shared it in great detail with others… here’s what I’ve got to say about it.

My plan involves a lot of creativity, creation of something new, exciting, challenging and not necessarily monetarily-motivated but perhaps more musically inclined, inspirational and expressive. After all, us Pisceans are an expressive lot. Free-spirited, mercurial and uniquely strange. 

Many of my friends have commented about me being somewhat of a strange nut. Thing is, I’ve totally learnt to embrace this spontaneity and use it to my advantage at times. True, some may say it leaves ppl behind when I just go rambling on and on about something that excites me. I need to find my equal in life who thrills in this self-same spontaneity and totally accepts me for who I am. I understand that that may be somewhat of a challenge ;p but no worries, mate, I’m still young.

They say handwriting tells tons about you. Pls do read this http://www.handwritinginsights.com/terms.html
It has revealed to me more aspects of my personality then I’d care to admit.

1.Analytical, tense and self disciplined. Usually can see more than one approach to a problem and therefore often has some degree of executive ability. Uses will power to direct and control his actions.
2.May complete the essentials of a job, but evades responsibility by neglecting the finishing details. Loses interest quickly and goes on to the next thing. Impatience is a part of this writer's personality.

http://handwriting.feedbucket.com/results.php
The results of your analysis say:
You plan ahead, and are interested in beauty, design, outward appearance, and symmetry.
You are a shy, idealistic person who does not find it easy to have relationships, especially intimate ones.
You are diplomatic, objective, and live in the present.
You are a talkative person, maybe even a busybody!
You enjoy life in your own way and do not depend on the opinions of others.
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I’m happy today or rather I choose to be happy because:

1.I’m better and stronger because I can be mature, take things in my stride and just move on despite this small setback. Life’s tough circumstances can only serve to make us stronger.

2.I think it’s right the way things worked out… Like I think it’s more correct and we can all be ourselves this way.

3.This is life as I expect it to be. I am essentially very idealistic and still believe in my version of my fairtale love story but I believe this is life’s reality dished out to me with that familiar bittersweet taste of well, truth. And truth hurts, darling. It always does.

4.I’ve learnt today that I can be quite strong and mature about things and have the emotional security that I need to fall back on.

5.I’m not afraid to be alone. In fact, I need to be alone for a more substantial period of time before learning to love myself and seeking happiness through being with another.

6.I can be stronger for a friend in need when the need so arises.

7.Most of all, the decision has been made and let’s stay focused and move on from here with new focus, renewed energy and vigour and strive for happiness. What will be will be.

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